If there is one thing we can all agree on is that Evelyn Lozada and Tami Roman are NOT FRIENDS and on the last episode Chad Ochocinco got dragged thanks to an argument between the Basketball Wives.
Back in 2012, Chad Ochocinco was on top of his NFL career that was until Evelyn Lozada found condoms in his glove box. When she confronted her husband, Ocho head-butted her, leaving her with wounds and six stitches. Continue on…
On this weeks Basketball Wives, Tami Roman and Evelyn Lozada got into, so Ev decided to show the world what her six-week-old marriage gave her.
In the clip below, one of Evelyn’s co-stars, Tami Roman, is heard saying “You lied on Chad.” She and Roman have had a long-standing beef for years now.
It seems like Tami has been waiting all season to go in on Evelyn Lozada ever since she made fun of her walk. So what, Tami does walk like that but we still love her.
Everyone is too in their feelings and now the ex Miami Dolphins player Ochocinco is being dragged into the mess.
Ochocinco is clueless about the drama playing out on VH-1.
#Checkit #PressPlay #MessyMessyMessy
Being a domestic violence survivor, she felt that she needed to defend her DV attack by taking to Instagram to set the record straight with Tami since she is twisting the story to suit herself.
Evelyn writes:
The victim blaming culture discourages DV victims from coming forward. The fear of being judged and shamed is enough to make anyone stay quiet and suffer in silence—so coming out is a HUGE deal! Shaming directed at the survivor is just WRONG on so many levels. The mindset of anyone who would think that the one being abused did something to incite the situation unsettles me! When someone builds up enough courage to speak their truth—they should be believed and supported. And for those that choose to victim blame—pause and think about the inner turmoil and emotional conflict you can potentially cause for the survivor.
She elaborates why she shared the photo:
For me, as a DV survivor, I chose to use my experience to personally evolve and I’ve learned that there is light at the end of the darkest tunnel. I know that all DV situations are different. In my case, it was the love and support our families and a willingness and concerted effort by both of us to heal; my ex and I coexist, harbor no ill will and have moved forward… #StopVictimBlaming #DVisReal #ThinkBeforeYouAct #LozadaCares #LivingInMyTruth ??????
Bottom line is Tami was out of line for rehashing false trues about Ev. This I definitely something she wants behind her and something Chad Ochocinco wants everyone to forget about.
Looks like he will have to wait a couple years again for this to die down since Basketball Wives is now addressing the domestic violence incident.
Chad was sentenced to 12 months of probation following his arrest for the abuse. Now, the accusations are back through Basketball Wives Los Angeles.
